Episode Summary:

In this episode of the Autism Blueprint Podcast, I had the pleasure of welcoming back Katherine Scott, a licensed marriage and family therapist from Puzzle Peace Counseling in North Florida. We discussed the insights gained from our ongoing therapy group, “Love Beyond Labels,” which focuses on individuals in romantic relationships with neurodivergent partners.

Katherine shared her observations about the power of community and validation, highlighting how participants learned to embrace their experiences rather than gaslighting themselves. We explored the theme of resentment in relationships, emphasizing that it often signals the need for boundaries. Katherine eloquently described how resentment can be toxic, comparing it to “poisoning yourself and waiting for the other person to die.”

We also delved into the importance of perspective-taking, particularly regarding love languages. Many partners in the group realized that while their neurodivergent partners expressed love through acts of service, they craved emotional intimacy, which often led to misunderstandings. By understanding each other’s backgrounds and emotional needs, couples could find common ground and compromise.

Throughout our conversation, we emphasized the significance of communication, emotional regulation, and the need for flexibility in relationships. Katherine provided practical strategies for couples, such as using scripts and allowing for silence during discussions, to foster better understanding and connection.

Ultimately, we highlighted that relationships require effort from both partners and that it’s essential to model the communication styles we wish to see in our loved ones. The episode concluded with a reminder that couples are not alone in their struggles and that exploring different forms of communication can be beneficial.

Join us as we continue to explore ways to create a more peaceful home while navigating the complexities of relationships with neurodivergent loved ones.

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Meet Katherine Scott

Katherine Scott, M.Ed/Ed.S, LMFT,

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Her children’s book: The Tale of A Trio

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Previous episodes with Ms. Kat:

• Neurodivergent Love | Expert Tips To Improve Your Connection with Your Partner


• Understanding Neurodivergent Needs | A conversation with Miss Kat | with Katherine Scott, LMFT


• Telling ‘Tails’: How Stories Can Help Kids Adjust To New Situations | A Conversation With Katherine Scott, LMFT

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